How to Communicate with Our Classmates

    When you have a different opinion from your friend, what should you do? I think the best way is to talk to your friend and tell him or her how you're feeling. It's always important to tell your friend your feelings.

    Of course, sometimes friends do drift apart. As we grow older, we have different interests and sometimes this means that a friendship may not be as close as it was. This also means that you may find a different group of friends to spend time with.

    Then what should you do to keep a friendship? One helpful thing is to be sure you let others know you like them. Smile to them, talk to them and show your interest to what they say and do. People usually like to make friends with those who appreciate them.

    It's also important to remember that you should always be yourself. When you try to keep the friendship，you might begin to do things or act in some ways that aren't normally part of your personality. If your friend is unfriendly to you, that doesn't mean you should become unkind to other people. If keeping a friendship means you have to become someone who you aren't，that friendship isn't worth keeping.

    When we meet someone for the first time, we often would like to talk about ourselves. We just want to show the best to others. But why not listen？Sometimes, listening is better than talking. Then how to be a good listener？Here are a few suggestions:

    Look at the speaker. It shows you are listening carefully. It's also a good way to "talk" to your friend with your eyes.

    Don't cut in. Give your friend enough time to say what she or he thinks. Don't stop your friend's words. Even if you want to say something, you should wait till your friend finishes.

    Try to understand. When you are listening, try to catch his or her feelings and ideas. It helps you know your friend better. And your friend will feel better about you. He or she may think you are the right person to talk with.

    Show your ideas at the right time. "It's interesting." "What happened next？"…These are useful when you are listening. And you can give advice when your friend asks for it.

    It's never too late to become a good listener. It can change your life and the lives of the people in your life.