A wise man was visiting a village with his students. He found a group of family members s in anger at each other. He turned to his students and asked, "Why do people shout in anger at each other?" His students thought for a while, and one of them said, "Because when we lose our calm, we shout."
"But why should you shout when the other person is just n to you? You may just tell him what you have to say in a soft manner as well, "said the wise man.
Students gave some other a but none was any good.
"When two people are angry with each other, their h become distant," the wise man explained, "To cover that distance they must shout to be heard by each other. The angrier they are, the l they will have to shout at each other to cover that great distance. "
The wise man then gave an e, what happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each otter but talk softy b their hears are very close. When they love each other even more, what happens? They don't need to talk. They only look at each other and that's all. That is h close two people are when they love each other. "He looked at his student s and said," So when you argue, do not let your hears get distant. Do not say words that distance you from others. O, there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the p to return.
