Misunderstandings can happen between friends. If you don't want to lose your friends because of misunderstandings that can be taken care of, you'd better solve them quickly. Below are some tips that you can have a try.
Know the cause of the problem.
The first step in knowing how to solve a misunderstanding between friends is to find the cause of it. But remind yourself that you must be open to the results if the fault lies in you. And you must be willing to apologize and make up for it.
When you want to talk to your friend, make sure you're doing it at a suitable moment. It can help solve the misunderstanding more effectively. For example, you can't talk to your friend about it if he or she has other pressing problems. Finding a private and calm place to talk about it is a must as well.
Control your emotions.
Before solving the misunderstanding with your friend, you'd better learn how to control your emotions. Discussing it with strong negative emotions won't lead to a good result. It may cause the problem to become more complicated (复杂的).
Be a good listener.
As a friend, you should be a good listener. Not only do you have to listen to your friends talk about the troubles in their lives, but you also must be willing to listen to all the things that they may not like about you. It can help you understand them. Then, it will be easier for you to get over a problem together.
A. Change your viewpoint.
B. Find the right time and place.
C. Worse still, it could result in new misunderstandings.
D. This is a good thing as long as you keep an open mind.
E. Once you know it, you can start to look for the right solutions.
F. And avoid dealing with the matter when you're both in high spirits.
G. Your friends will be more likely to realize their mistakes and correct them.
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The traditional Chinese lunar calendar divides the year into 24 solar terms. Minor Snow (小雪) refers to the time when it starts to snow, mostly in China's northern areas, and the temperature continues to drop.
Here are four things you should know about Minor Snow.
Wearing hats and scarves
In China, starting in Minor Snow, the wind blows from the northeast a lot. Because it's still not bitterly cold, many people do not wear hats or scarves yet. In fact, according to an old Chinese saying, "The head is the place where all passages of the body gather". It's sensible to keep one's head warm.
Drinking soup
During Minor Snow, indoor heating begins to work, which means the air indoors is dry and most people might find their nose and mouth feels a bit dry. According to practices in traditional Chinese medicine, this accumulation of "inner heat" in one's body can cause problems, including oral ulcers and breakouts (口腔溃疡和破损). The solution is to drink more hot soup, such as cabbage and bean curd soup, spinach and bean curd soup, and mutton and radish soup.
Making preserved pork
After Minor Snow, the temperature declines sharply and the air becomes dry. It is the best time to start making preserved pork, which by the Chinese Spring Festival would be ready to enjoy. In the past, when storage conditions were poor, people developed many ways to store food and preserved pork is one such example. So even in the bitter winter, the whole family could enjoy meat. Some even say preserved pork tastes more delicious than fresh meat.
Avoiding spicy food
On cold days, people may crave some hot and spicy food to keep warm. Experts say it's wise not to eat overly spicy food, since that will increase your inner heat.